I don’t know how some girls are 100% straight like have you seen girls
Anonymous asked: Except you don't like me... As "myself"
sorry if i misinterpret you but i think you’re implying that i have “friendzoned” you or something like that and i just want to give you my two cents on that concept. when you try to make a girl (or anyone for that matter) feel guilty for kindly telling you that they would prefer to be friends (rather than take it further), you are attacking the girl’s right to say no and assert herself as an individual with a right to determine with whom she spends her time and shares herself.
there is a difference between being “friendzoned” and jumping to the conclusion that the person dislikes you. personally, i have few people i dislike and tend to find endearing qualities in everyone. however, i find it irritating when someone tries to make me feel bad by assuming i “don’t like” them and proceeding to feel sorry for themselves. i’m also not interested in going further than being friends with everyone who expects me to.
i know it stings when someone doesn’t reciprocate your feelings. i feel you completely on that. but it’s not fair to make them feel guilty about it. you have to respect the person’s right to establish boundaries. it does not mean they don’t like you.